Ms Lesley CP
“Oyez, Oyez, Oyez, court is now in session! All rise."
Being born in the North West of England has more than a little to do with my make up as a human being. Whilst I am pretty tough, I do have a tender side. This will become apparent once I meet all you lovely people, though fluffy and soft are not words you will hear from me at the Wicked Women Weekend!
The event I am most associated with is the Northwest Court, a fun gathering of some of the loveliest disciplinarians in the UK, South Africa, Ireland and beyond, and which is now coming to Wichita, Kansas. These women of the Court are, like me, the sweetest ladies you will ever meet. They all also happen to be some of the best in the business. Of course no Court would be complete without a Magistrate, it’s not a Crown Court (Yet), therefore a justice of the peace, sheriff or Magistrate will officiate, reading out the misconduct. Sorry there is no alleged - you are guilty - and the sentence which is passed down is administered there and then.
There are witnesses to ensure the punishment is fair (it never is) and administered in the correct way. Prior to mounting the bench, the condemned will be checked for appearance; poor presentation could lead to an increased sentence whilst a smart and tidy appearance… changes nothing. Transgressions (confession) are submitted prior to Court.
(As footnote there is person who attends to the condemned following punishment, and if required, lashing of hot sweet milky tea and rich tea biscuits. As a good old cuppa cures most upset.)
Presentation
Impact Therapy
My presentation will show techniques using the open hand, cane, leather strap, and paddles. I aim to show the correct way to use the impact tools safely, to show which areas of the body, usually the cheeks of the bottom, are safe to impact upon and which areas can cause harm. We will demonstrate the need for accuracy, and how people will have different levels they play at in terms of corporal punishment, using the implements above. We will also discuss the positioning used, which enables the Bottom to experience different levels of feelings from the same implement.
I have a great deal of experience and the safety of the person I am in a scene with is of upmost importance. There is also a psychological element to my play (mind games if you will) and this is something I am happy to discuss as well.
Queen Rose Freya
Queen Rose Freya, the Goddess of Breaking-Taboo, is a trailblazing adult content creator, Professional Dominatrix, fetish model, BDSM Coach, and sex educator. Her website, www.breaking-taboo.com, showcases her bold and unapologetic approach to exploring the kink in human desire. By pushing boundaries and challenging societal norms Rose breaks down taboos, and promotes sexual freedom through education.
As a presenter at Wicked Women Weekend, she'll share her expertise on The Energetics of BDSM & The Art of Containment, two dynamic classes that focus on the subtle variables at play in every scene. Join Rose as she takes the stage, breaking taboos and sparking meaningful, tantalizing conversations along the way.
www.breaking-taboo.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/queengoddessrose/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/LouisvilleSchoolofBDSM/
Presentations:
The Energetics of BDSM
In the wonderful world of BDSM, there's more to explore than meets the eye. Beyond the physical acts, lies a complex tapestry of emotions, energies, and deep connections between participants. "The Energetics of BDSM" is a thought-provoking class designed to delve into the mystical and psychological aspects of this multifaceted lifestyle, guiding you through the uncharted territories of power exchange, intimacy, and spiritual exploration.
The Art of Containment
In kink and power exchange, creating a safe, trusting, and intense experience for all parties involved is paramount. At Breaking-Taboo, we're excited to introduce "The Art of Containment," a comprehensive class designed to explore the profound impact of physical touch in grounding your submissive or bottom, both before and during scene play. This unique approach focuses on utilizing touch as a powerful tool to convey control, leadership, and dominance, fostering an environment where your partner feels secure, seen, and understood.
Reya Sunshine
Reya Sunshine is a queer, demisexual, feral femme hedonist with over 15 years in the kink scene who teaches about consent, sensation play, and relationship dynamics across the country. Reya is an Emeritus member of Ohio SMART in Cleveland, the current president of the Titans of the Midwest, and a member of Haus of Heathens. Reya supports the Carter Johnson Library and Collection, the LA&M, and the NCSF. In her down time you can find her sorting through her vast collection of office supplies with a delicious iced coffee in her hands!
Presentations:
Long Distance Power Exchange
Met a new person who (of course) lives far away? Are you developing a new dynamic from a distance? What if you’re never going to live close to each other, but want to keep your long-term connection between events? In this class we will: Learn how to outline the scope of your dynamic; Identify rituals, protocols, and activities you and your partner(s) can use from any distance; Decide how often to review and/or revise your dynamic; and Create a way to ramp up or power down your dynamic to work around your day-to-day lives.
Women, Femmes, Theys, and Thems: Showing Up in (Mostly) Male Spaces
Have you ever gone to an event and wondered if you'd be the only "othered" person there? Did you sigh in relief when the other folks there were welcoming to you? Or do you still feel worried showing up to new-to-you events? Then come join us in an interactive facilitated discussion around how to comfortably take up space at leather, bear, and kink events.
Lady Lovage
Lady Lovage has been in the Lifestyle for ten years and She worked as a Professional Dominatrix in St. Louis for eight years. She specializes in role play, predicament bondage, high protocol, and slave training. She was Headmistress of ClubFEM St. Louis from 2016 to 2018 and the Headmistress of House of J Femdom Collective from 2018 to 2019. In 2022, She moved to a Homestead in the Ozarks with Her spouse where She still offers specialized sessions. When She isn't hunting, riding horses, or foraging, She still enjoys participating in the scene and hosting high protocol events.
Presentation:
Finding and Vetting Clients
When planning a professional Domination session, identifying and thoroughly vetting potential clients is a crucial first step. Even in non-professional lifestyle play, prioritizing safety and discretion is always beneficial. In Finding and Vetting Clients, join Lady Lovage as She shares Her most effective methods for ensuring safe and clear communication—from initial contact to the first session.
Building a Professional Domination Session
Professional sessions may seem intimidating at first, but once you master their rhythm and flow—along with the best strategies for planning and organizing sessions for a diverse range of clients—you'll step into them with confidence and ease! Join Lady Lovage for a discussion on Building a Professional Domination Session.
SassyHoot
SassyHoot is a FemDom from Oklahoma City and co-owner of Wonderfully Wicked Women (W.W.W.). She has been active in the Lifestyle and Community since 2014. Her primary interests are Female-Led Relationships (FLR), Facesitting, Cock & Ball Torture (CBT), and Sensual Play.
Presentation:
Facesitting 101
Whether you're a Queen on a throne or a princess on a pillow, facesitting is for everyone!
This class will begin with a general overview and brief history of facesitting. I'll discuss the Health & Safety aspects, before moving into the instructional/demonstration portion.
This class will empower you to feel confident and sexier as you learn to receive and give pleasure in this timeless act of worship!
Wonder Woman
Wonder Woman, Ms. Route 66 Leather 2023, is a Leather and Lego loving Little stuck inside a switch that identifies as a Femme Domme. Though a Missouri native, she has called Oklahoma home for 19 years, the last 5 of which she has been part of the leather and kink community in OKC.
Wonder is known for body painting, sensory play, topping as a little, hitting people with her rubber chicken and advocating for safety, knowledge and acceptance of alternative lifestyles. You can find her participating in events at her home dungeon, ThatPlace, and in local groups like Dommy Daycare, Kinky Coffee, Let’s Talk Leather, Littles Coalition, Oklahoma Kilt Enthusiasts and Wonderfully Wicked Women of Oklahoma City. She has planned multiple Littles events, been asked to teach and talk about being Little, show off her unique toy box and has led discussions of her experiences of abuse, pre and post kink, that led her to create her first kink group, Speak Out Oklahoma! In 2021, she co-founded Dommy Daycare, an age play group that focuses on the caretaker's relationships with littles.
Wonder Woman runs her own maker business called Wonder of Whimsy. She leads a 24/7 alternative lifestyle and acts as a self proclaimed ambassador for her beloved community. She recently left her full time position at OKC’s local Lego store so she could focus on her mental and physical health, her own business, and to have the time and freedom to learn, explore, grow and become a more active member in the leather and kink world.
Presentations:
Anxiety, Depression, and Personality disorders, oh my! Navigating Kink with BPD
Living with Borderline Personality Disorder also means dealing with many other mental illnesses. Moving through life with BPD is like a roller coaster of emotions. When you add kink into the mix, that roller coaster upgrades with a steep plunge into upside down double loops that jolts you to a stop mid fall and then does it all again, backwards! So how does one handle such a ride? Join Wonder Woman as she shares her personal journey of navigating kink with bpd and learn ways to make your own journey one with a little less anxiety.
The class starts with attendee question participation interspersed with personal stories. We then transition into in depth topics where class discussion is held on major points with time left for questions. In the end, attendees will leave with tools on how to kink while living with mental illnesses and personality disorders.
Consensual Acts of Age Play
Let’s face it, Age Play isn’t for everyone. A lot of negative stigmas have surrounded it for many reasons. Join Ms Route 66 Leather 2023, Wonder Woman, as she teaches what Age Play is really all about. Learn what it means to be a consenting adult and what to do when you encounter someone that has not consented to take part in your kink. Discover tips and tricks to make sure you’re prepared for nearly any situation. While this class focuses on breaking the stigmas of Age Play, attendees will learn important skills of how kink with consent!
This is an interactive class where attendees participate in a Q&A, listen to personal stories, receive a hand outs then enter into a class discussion. Attendees will learn the importance of consent when it comes to Age Play, along with the knowledge on how to prepare for kinky events and encounters.
Vincent Pandemonium
Vincent Pandemonium (He/Him) is a person of Leather, lifelong spanko, and has been a member of Led relationships (as both Leader and Led) for twenty-four years. He is an active member of the Wicked Women multi-state FemDom group and is the fiancé, 24/7 collared submissive and live-in FLR partner of Divine Ms. Diana, Head Mistress of the Wichita chapter.
Vincent is person of Leather and a member of the House of Chaos leather family, founded by Ms. WOOLF Leather 2008, Mistress Aimee. He is a former member of the ICT Leadership Council, a pan-organizational group dedicated to sharing safety information for BDSM participants within the Wichita area. He teaches on various BDSM subjects at his local dungeon as well as regional events and serves the Wicked Women of Wichita as a member of the administration team, Discord engineer and dungeon monitor.
Vincent is an IT professional, loves cats, and has far too many hobbies for his own good. He currently spends most of his time writing spanking fiction, playing the Ukulele (badly), and striving toward a 405 pound squat PR. You can contact Vincent via his FetLife profile, Vpandemonium.
Presentation:
Female Led Relationships: An Introduction
Would you like to live within a Female Led Relationship but don’t know where to start? Perhaps you’ve wondered if the lifestyle of an FLR could be for you? What exactly are Led relationships and why would anyone want to live in one? Are Led relationships the same as living within a kinky power exchange dynamic? Aren’t Led relationships outdated and verboten in this era of equality?
Come join Vincent Pandemonium as he explores these questions and more in his discussion on Female Led Relationships. Vincent will cover the basics of living within an FLR, both from the Led and Leadership points of view, discuss first steps toward forming the dynamic and finding a suitable partner or partners, and cover some common misconceptions and pitfalls to avoid.
Mistress Shadoejoe and tom
A dynamic and highly experienced duo who bring a unique blend of passion, skill, and professionalism to the BDSM and kink community. Together, they create an inviting and empowering space where education, exploration, and play come alive.
Mistress Shadoejoe joined the local kink community in 2018, diving into the lifestyle with curiosity and enthusiasm. Over the years, she has honed her skills, particularly in urethral play, with her submissive partner, tom. Her dedication to learning and perfecting her craft has led her to become a Professional Dominatrix, offering a wide array of services tailored to those seeking guidance, control, and connection. She travels extensively throughout the United States, attending events and sharing her knowledge with others through workshops, demonstrations, and one-on-one interactions. Known for her approachable teaching style and enthusiasm, Mistress Shadoejoe is a passionate educator who inspires others to explore their desires safely and confidently.
tom, a retired physician with over 20 years of experience, brings unparalleled expertise to their partnership. Board-certified in Family Practice and with 17 years of service at Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, tom specialized in providing comprehensive reproductive healthcare to individuals often marginalized by traditional medical systems. his compassionate approach to care and focus on education and counseling have carried over seamlessly into the kink community. With experience in urethral insertion for both males and females, tom’s clinical knowledge and commitment to safety make him an invaluable resource for those exploring sounding and other advanced play techniques.
Together, Mistress Shadoejoe and tom are a powerhouse team, offering workshops and demonstrations that blend deep knowledge, practical techniques, and a playful, approachable energy. Whether you’re a newcomer curious about urethral play or a seasoned kinkster looking to refine your skills, their classes provide a welcoming space to learn, explore, and grow. You can find them on FetLife as Shadoejoe and TWR-BB.
Presentations:
SOUNDS: Not just to be heard
Have you heard of urethral play, sounding, or cock-stuffing? What is sounds and sounding? Who can be sounded? Are sounds dangerous? Sounds can be accessories? Sounds have advanced play?
Join Mistress Shadoejoe and tom for an enlightening and hands-on exploration of sounding—a unique and intimate form of play that involves the insertion of specially designed instruments, called sounds, into the urethra. This class will demystify the practice, covering everything from the basics to advanced techniques. Whether you’re new to sounding or looking to deepen your understanding, this session will provide valuable insights into the pleasure, safety, and intricacies of urethral play. Sounds come in various materials, including glass, metal, and silicone, each offering distinct sensations and benefits. You'll have the opportunity to examine these tools up close and learn how to choose the right ones for your play style and experience level.
Safety is paramount in this type of play, and Mistress Shadoejoe and tom will guide you through essential hygiene practices, risk management, and proper techniques to ensure a pleasurable and harm-free experience. They will also demonstrate how sounds can be used as accessories in play, from teasing sensations to enhancing chastity and control dynamics. For those ready to take their play to the next level, advanced techniques and creative ways to incorporate sounds into scenes will be discussed. Whether you're curious, an experienced player, or simply intrigued by the possibilities, this class offers a welcoming and informative space to expand your knowledge and explore new realms of pleasure.
Mr. Ellen and Pup Michael
Mr. Ellen (she or they) is a genderqueer Dominant, Daddy, and Sadist who has been active in the public kink community since 2004. Their interests and passions range from deep, thought-provoking, conversations to anal fisting (also deep and thought-provoking at times). Mr. Ellen came out into the public BDSM/Leather community in NYC and has since been active in communities from South Florida to Denver, with many stops along the way.
Mr. Ellen is proud to have volunteered, presented, and served on staff for dozens of events across the country over the past 20 years. Some of her presenter and staff credits include: South Plains Leather Fest, The Master/slave Conference; Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat, Dark Odyssey Fusion, Dark Odyssey Summer Camp, Southwest Leather Conference, Colonial Kink, Florida Fetish Weekend, Beyond Leather, Black Rose 25, DC Leather Pride Educational Day, Baltimore Educational & Social Society, Southeast VA TNG, Charm City Fetish Fair, CROP (Cedar Rapids), and Mad-Town Kinkfest.
Pup Michael (he/him) is a service-oriented slave who also has many kinky interests. He began exploring D/s in early 2010 and was lucky enough to meet his owner nearly immediately. Despite being warned (by his future owner) not to jump into a relationship too quickly, Michael found himself collared by Mr. Ellen and has been owned by, and in service to, her since then.
Mr. Ellen and Pup Michael's relationship is fundamentally based on equal parts love and D/s. They were legally married in 2017, after seven years in an Owner/property relationship. They are also commonly known online by their pen names Melissa and Joseph after publishing their book Collared: The Story of a Sir and Her Priest.
Presentations:
Sign on the Dotted Line: Contract Negotiation for Relationship Success
Whether you're already partnered or single and looking, spend some time focusing on what you’d like your relationship to look like in concrete terms. From the top or the bottom, from play partners to Masters and slaves, we all have wants, needs, requirements, deal-breakers, and preferences. Contracts are often spoken about in vague terms, and usually assumed to be solely fetish oriented, but rarely do people share their personal contracts to provide examples, ideas, and inspiration. That’s exactly what we’ll do in this class, so come prepared to participate and take home a valuable new relationship tool.
FemDom Beyond the Binary: Navigating Female Led Relationships Across the Gender Spectrum
Female + Dominant = FemDom. It’s simple, right? But not so fast! What about butch women, gender-nonconforming women, genderqueer, and trans women, and others who don’t embrace the essence of all that’s feminine/female? This session will explore where we, the not-so-femme FemDoms, fit in. We’ll discuss how we find our place in a subculture that often imposes expectations and rules for dress and behavior based on strict gender binaries. Join our moderator Mr. Ellen and a group of panelists spanning a wide range of female/woman identities to learn how broad the “FemDom” umbrella can be. Please note: We honor each attendee’s right to self-identify their gender and will not hold space for debates over whether someone “really is” the gender they identify.
Wicked Maggie
Wicked Maggie is a pansexual, dominant woman with a wickedly sadistic side. She has been in the lifestyle for fifteen years and enjoys teaching and mentoring FemDom related topics in her local communities. She is well known for her vivacious approach to life and kink, as well as her wicked cackles emanating from the dungeons across the country as she tortures her latest victims. She currently runs the Dominants Discussion group at Voodoo Leatherworks and is one of the founding members of the Colorado Springs Domme School. Along with her Partner, Blondie, they have enjoyed entertaining the Colorado Front Range kink communities with their crazy antics for the past 4 years.
Presentations:
Harnessing your Inner Goddess - discussion on power/authority in D/s dynamics
Power. Authority. Such delectable concepts, especially to those of us in the BDSM world. Surrounded by phrases like Power Exchange, Power Dynamics and Authority Transfer, how well do we truly understand these concepts? Come join us for a guided discussion as we journey through exploring What is Power, What is Authority, where does it come from and how do we harness it? How do we carry these over into our D/S dynamics? What are the Moral/ethical dilemmas we face taking on the dominant position in our relationships and accepting the power and authority over our partners?
Embracing your Sadistic Side
Come take a walk on the Darkside! Sadist can be a scary word loaded with negative connotations and yet, there are many of us drawn to the joy we feel when causing pain. Whether you're just starting to explore sadism or looking to deepen your understanding, join us as we dive into what it means to embrace your inner sadist. We’ll discuss the different types of sadism. We’ll also get real about the struggles that come with accepting this side of yourself, like dealing with guilt or fear of judgment. Plus, we share creative ideas for adding sadism to your scenes and making it a part of your dynamic.
Mistress Rachael
Mistress Rachael has been a lifestyle Domme in the Kansas City area for 10+ years, enjoying the continuous journey of learning and developing. Open, honest communication is the foundation to Her on-going exploration of many BDSM activities and D/s relationships. With Her sadistic side and love of impact play, She finds joy in gifting a sub/slave/bottom with "badges" that consist of welts, bruises, and soreness that can last for days. She also has particular fetish for impact implements - collecting them, as well as using them.
As a founding Domme and Hostess of FLR-KC, She takes pride in being an integral part of the longest established, most consistent group in Kansas City focused on Female Led Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle. With FLR-KC Socials (twice a month), She provides opportunities for candid discussions, safe places for interacting and vetting of potential partners, sharing information with new and established folks throughout the BDSM community, along with continued education, learning, and development. Supporting Women's choices to be Dominant or submissive, She works to promote healthy M/s & D/s relationships that embrace power exchange, regardless of gender or sexual identity. Placing lifestyle learning first, She embraces the depth of connection, communication, attachment, and honesty which a lifestyle relationship can possess.
Presentation:
Wax and Knife Play
Wax play, a form of sensation and temperature play, can initiate an adrenaline rush when melted wax is dripped or poured onto bare skin. Bondage and sensory deprivation add more layers to the scene, especially when combined with cold or frozen elements to further stimulate reactions from the beneath the skin of a trusting partner.
Knife play can then be used to remove wax from the skin, bringing a heightened experience by incorporating elements of fear and the unknown, along with the risk of physical injury. Deep trust is critical when exploring the “sharper” aspects of edgeplay.
Azalea
Azalea is a lifestyle Dom and gender fluid sadist who has been part of the BDSM and Leather community since 2011. Over the years her passion for education, safety and, of course, bloody things have only grown.
She has led the dungeon monitor core at her local dungeon, where she focused on training new monitors, establishing safety protocols and ensuring that blood play, fire play, and scene monitoring were conducted with the highest level of care and responsibility. She wrote standards of practice and dungeon safety still in use today. She enjoys sharing her love of edge play and kink with Kansas City and other communities through teaching and demos. Her work has always been about balancing edge play with safety - finding new ways to inflict pain and create intense experiences while maintaining a controlled and risk-aware environment.
What drives her is the opportunity to share her knowledge, to help others navigate the beauty and brutality of these practices safely, and to foster a community where education and exploration go hand in hand. She is excited to be a presenter at Wicked Women Weekend and looks forward to diving into the art, technique, and the deliciously bloody details of our craft!
Presentation:
Artistic Cutting & Blood Cupping: The Beauty of Blood Play
Blood is more than just fluid - it's art, sensation, and connection. In this class, we'll explore the intricate and intimate practices of artistic cutting and blood cupping, blending techniques with creativity and safety.
We'll begin by covering the fundamentals of safe cutting, including tools, sanitation, and best practices for minimizing risk while maximizing artistic expression. From delicate line work to intentional designs, you'll learn how to create stunning body art that transforms the skin into a living canvas.
Next, we'll dive into the ancient and visceral practice of blood cupping - a method that combines controlled bleeding with the deep sensations of suction play. We'll discuss techniques, placement, aftercare, and how to integrate this practice into your scenes for both sensation and ritual.
Whether you're new to blood play or looking to refine your skills, this class is designed to educate, inspire, and empower you to wield the blade and the cup with confidence. Safety, negotiation, and risk awareness will be at the core of everything we discuss, ensuring that you walk away with knowledge that is both practical and responsible.
Come prepared to learn, ask questions, and embrace the beauty of blood.
Katt
Hey there! I’m Katt, and I absolutely love everything electro! I've been part of my local community for about seven years, embracing all things electro along the way. I’m also a proud leader of the Wonderfully Wicked Women group in OKC, and I’ve even had the opportunity to teach at the local dungeon. I'm a switch who really enjoys the mind-bending side of BDSM. When I’m not diving into kink, I’m at home with my two wonderful cats that I treat like my children. I run an art business, and on top of that, I am a certified death doula.
Presentation:
Electroplay 101
This introductory course will focus on violet wands, electrodes, and general electro safety. I will outline the differences between various types of wands, provide guidance on what to consider when making a purchase, offer insights into the more intense aspects of electro use, and discuss how to approach your electro journey with safety and risk awareness in mind.
Lady Ollivander and Good Boy
Lady Ollivander is a rope artist and performer with nine years of experience in the kink scene with a focus on Japanese rope bondage. Combining technical precision with fluid storytelling, she transforms rope into an expressive art form. With a background in anatomy and body mechanics, she emphasizes connection, movement, and intention in every tie.
Lady O is dedicated to refining her craft and sharing the beauty of rope through performance and education. For her, shibari is more than restraint—it’s expression, sensation, and the poetry of tension and release.
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If you hear hysterical laughter echoing through a dungeon, there’s a solid chance Good Boy is at the center of it—helpless, bound, and at the absolute mercy of his Queen.
GB has been in love with tickling for as long as he can remember, but his journey into Shibari began when Lady Ollivander—his keeper, tormentor, and the absolute love of his life— introduced him to rope. The moment the knots tightened, he knew he’d found something deeper than restraint—a connection, a devotion, a way to lose himself completely. In surrendering to Lady O’s rope, hands, and wicked mind, he found something he never expected—peace, belonging, and the freedom in submission.
Outside the dungeon, GB is an artist, storyteller, and creator, always making, always imagining, always leaving his mark on the world.
Presentation:
Rope [Bedroom] Basics
New to rope and not sure where to start? This beginner-friendly class will cover the essential first steps to safely incorporating rope into your intimate play. We’ll go over rope safety, how to handle and care for your rope, a fundamental knot that will set you up for success, and—most importantly—how to put it to use tonight. Whether you’re brand new or looking for a refresher on the basics, this class will give you a solid foundation to build from.
Class requirements: a couple hanks of rope and a cutter.