Our Mission
Our mission is to offer nationwide networking opportunities, inspire lifelong learning, advance knowledge and strengthen our relationships within the FemDom Community with inclusivity and respect to BIPOC and LGBTQIA2S+.
Our Admins
Divine Ms Diana, or MsD as she is known, is the Founder and Head Mistress of Wichita’s largest monthly BDSM event, the FemDom group Wicked Women of Wichita. She often says, “There was no place for me at the table, so I set my own and invited friends!” MsD has enjoyed attending weekend immersive BDSM conferences around the region so much that it became her dream to create one in Wichita.
MsD has been both a lifestyle and a Pro Domme over the years, with some of her dearest long time play partners and friends starting off as clients who then moved into the community with her encouragement. She enjoys teaching classes on a variety of topics from impact play to needle play to D/s dynamics. She has a special interest in the ever present attrition rate in kink communities and regularly speaks on methods to help individuals and groups improve longevity in the scene. Her preference is for one on one and small group mentoring and for promoting others who seek to teach at the monthly free educational class that Wicked Women of Wichita provides.
She enjoys the 24/7 lifestyle with her live in submissive and fiancé, running a busy FemDom discord server, organizing classes and playing scene and dynamic “match-maker” when she can. She also serves as a founding member of the Wichita-based ICT Leadership Council, a pan-organizational BDSM group focused on communication and community safety. Kink travel remains a great enjoyment to her, and after years of work she is able to enjoy “seeing herself” in an abundant number of beautiful members she has mentored at every area event she attends!
Vincent Pandemonium (He/Him) is a person of Leather, lifelong spanko, and has been a member of Led relationships (as both Leader and Led) for twenty-four years. He is an active member of the Wicked Women multi-state FemDomme group and is the 24/7 collared submissive and live-in FLR partner of Divine Ms. Diana, Head Mistress of the Wichita chapter.
Vincent is person of Leather and a member of the House of Chaos leather family, founded by Ms. WOOLF Leather 2008, Mistress Aimee. He is a former member of the ICT Leadership Council, a pan-organizational group dedicated to sharing safety information for BDSM participants within the Wichita area. He teaches on various BDSM subjects at his local dungeon as well as regional events and serves the Wicked Women of Wichita as a member of the administration team, Discord engineer and dungeon monitor.
Vincent is an IT professional, loves cats, and has far too many hobbies for his own good. He currently spends most of his time writing spanking fiction, playing the Ukulele (badly), and striving toward a 405 pound squat PR. You can contact Vincent via his FetLife profile, Vpandemonium.
Miss Sara is unapologetically herself. She has been in the lifestyle for almost 15 years and in the Oklahoma City Community for about 8 of those years. She is member and co-owner of Wonderfully Wicked Women - Oklahoma City; co-founded and is a member of PAC-OK (Paws And Claws Oklahoma); co-founded and is a member of Dommy Daycare; a member of Women of Drummer.
She is the Owner and Executive Producer of Kink Weekend OKC/Route 66 Leather Contests and Contest Coordinator for Women of Drummer Contest Weekend. She is a member of a local dungeon and is very active in her Community and encourages others to be as well.
She is a Femme Domme, Leather Woman, Lesbian, a play-oriented Top, mentor, pet handler, caregiver, and a Bootblack. She loves going to various Community events, conventions, and contests to meet and learn from others’ experiences and hopes to be able to give back to the Community that has given her so much.
She had the honor of being the inaugural Ms. Route 66 Leather 2020-2021 and Woman of Drummer 2021.
She has enjoyed her journey in the lifestyle and Community thus far and is excited to see how far the rest of her journey will take her.
Mistress Shell (she/her) has been an active member of the kink community for the past five years, with a passion for education and mentorship. Since August 2023, she has served as a WWW Administrator, where she helps foster an inclusive and empowering space for all members. As an experienced Top, she has taught Impact 101 and Safe Sex classes, sharing her knowledge and encouraging safe, consensual practices within the community. Her favorite toys include the dragon's tail and tongue, and her preferred play involves needle play, impact and CBT.
With a love for mentoring, Mistress Shell is dedicated to showing newcomers the ropes — both literally and figuratively —helping them find their confidence and voice within the scene. Outside of kink, she enjoys collecting hobbies, rocks, plants, and playing board games. She shares her life with her fabulous partner Natalie (she/her/him/his), whom she met over three years ago at a Wicked Women munch. Together, they navigate a pansexual, poly-closed relationship.
Mistress Shell is incredibly and excited to bring this incredible experience to the Midwest and cannot wait to meet all the new people!
Mistress Aimee is a lifer in the BDSM community. She has been active in total for 25 years, in the Wichita community for 18. She is the owner and operator of Kinky Coffee of Kansas, Wichita’s longest running kink group. She is an administrator for the Wicked Women of Wichita, and is the founding member of her leather family called the House of Chaos.
Mistress Aimee is a lesbian, leather Domme and has been in the leather community since 2006. She is a former title holder, Ms. WOOLF Leather, and has been actively engaged in various community organizations in her time including 1740, Wichita First Friday Munch, WOOLF, and SICK.
An educator and presenter, Mistress Aimee teaches on topics of mental health, sadistic needle play, impact play, artistic cutting, negotiations, vetting, and basic 101 play. She is an advocate for education and safe play, doing her part to give back to the community that has given her so much.